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August 31, 2007

The Bees' Knees

Old_lady_4This story below made me think about the fact that when I'm 80, I'll still have perky boobs...I keep trying to visualize what that'll look like against everything else. Hmmmm...

All else will have gone south and my boobs will probably be standing at attention...might be a lazy version of attention, but attention nonetheless...That's why I'd be smiling like the gal in the picture!

This is from Butler Webs. Fun site. There web address is at the bottom. Enjoy the story!

Aging Mildred was a 93-year-old woman who was particularly despondent over the recent death of her husband, Earl. She decided that she would just kill herself and join him in death.

Thinking that it would be best to get it over with quickly, she took out Earl's old Army pistol and made the decision to shoot herself in the heart, since it was so badly broken in the first place.

Not wanting to miss the vital organ and become a vegetable and burden to someone, she called her doctor's office to inquire as to just exactly where the heart would be on a woman. The doctor said, "Your heart would be just below your left breast."

Later that night, Mildred was admitted to the hospital with a gunshot wound to her knee.

Submitted by Adiastar00

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August 26, 2007

Practicalities

Img_2724_5 There are practical considerations to having a mastectomy. For example, you may not want to pick up anything heavy right away.

You might want to make sure you have on hand, or pick up, some light-weight drinking glasses. These are ones my brother and sister-in-law brought me from Russia, and they were perfect - light as a feather and pretty, too!

Although, in retrospect, you might want to go with plastic just in case.

August 25, 2007

Untaping the Tataz

The doc took the tapes off on Wednesday. (Only ouched in one spot...don't have feeling in a lot of the other places...and in this case, that's a good thing.)

When he started, all I could think about was the advice about removing bandaids - Just RIP it off! Faster is better.

Well, I've got to say...I wasn't too sure about that advice when facing the prospect of having the "bandaids" ripped from my boobies!

Here's what they look like.

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I'll post more pics in a photo album. I took close-up pics of the scars.

This is the only time I've felt even remotely "frankenboobish", but not because of the way they look...but because I had a few strings protruding from my "seams". Still have one I need to cut off.

It's the kind of thread that dissolves, but this is on the outside. Looks like they threaded it out - perhaps to make a knot? - and then left a few hanging.

They're hard to see, even if they're long, because it's a clear, fine thread. Like a strand of hair.

Again, I was worried when he told me he was just going to yank the one that was poking out of my nipple. Made me flinch because, normally, that probably would have hurt. Then I remembered once again that I don't have feeling.

August 24, 2007

Chick with Nice Knockers

COULDN'T RESIST!!! Wish I'd thought of it!

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Note:

Picture pulled from http://www.butlerwebs.com/jokes/chick.htm. The following message accompanied the "chick" entry:

If anyone knows where this originated from, please let us know so we can give proper credit.  It was sent to us in E-mail several years ago and it was just too good not to share with you!

On 9/6/03 we received an E-mail from VB who thinks this may have come from www.Flowgo.com - but we are still unsure of the person who actually created this.

Bras for Breast Cancer Awareness

I love to see people take something that may be considered "misfortune" and use it for the greater good. I'm a big believer that everything happens for a reason. If you can't swallow that, I'd say that how you approach everything in your life makes all the difference.

You can let it get you down and keep you there. (There's nothing wrong with getting down. It's staying there that's the problem.) Or, you can choose to see the brighter side. You can find a way to use your situation to help others.

I believe that prayers are answered through each of us listening to those "a-ha" ideas or by seeing a need and filling it. That's what this gal did with her breast cancer experience. She saw a need and is working to fill it.

Her name is Fatima Karriem. After moving to the US from South Africa, she found out she had cancer. She got her treatment and has started a bra donation program to educate women from her homeland.

Here's the story with details on how to send a bra: Bras for Breast Cancer Awareness.

August 23, 2007

Name and source for No-rinse Soap

Norinse_soap Thanks again to Sara. She sent me the link for the no-rinse soap that they use at the hospital where she works.

Even better news is that it's available to the public. Go to the Steris link and click the link under the picture and text that says "this product is available for consumers."

It comes in packages of either 4-4 oz bottles or 2-8 oz. (So, either way, you're getting 16 oz. It's just a matter of what size you'd like.) At $13.00, it's a bargain for the convenience it provides!

August 22, 2007

Love this Attitude

Or should I call it a Titty-tude?

Gotta love these gals' harley ridin', cancer fightin' approach to life!

Amazonlogo_2 Founded by two young breast cancer survivors, Amazon Heart puts together adventures for breast cancer patients. The gals get to do something together and share their experiences while doing good in the community. Great, fun combo!

I signed up for Amazon Heart's ezine at the YSC Conference (Young Survival Coalition) in February. (I used to ride the occasional motorcycle...really enjoyed it. Hubby's not too keen on my riding, though.)

I love their quote:

"What if breast cancer was just the start of an incredible journey?"

Definitely makes you think.

Check out Amazon Heart at www.amazonheart.org. Find a new, wilder lease on life!

The Question of Your Period and Surgery

     I don't believe in throwing out loopy ideas or quack medicine, but I found this interesting, and as you may or may not know, through a series of events, I ended up using both allopathic (regular medicine)and alternative treatments in dealing with the cancer. I found both to have their place...although this particular idea originated in the allopathic community and more research needs to be done.

     So, let me say that I'm not saying this is true or not true, nor am I advising any particular course of action. I'm putting the information out there with arguments on both sides.

     This is information I had not heard of or run across in my research...probably because I wasn't even thinking about timing the surgery with my period for better post-op results. Once I decided on surgery, I just wanted it over and done with. The only thing that had to be coordinated was the schedule of two doctors and the operating room...which took some time to pull off.

     The only consideration I gave to my period was that I didn't want to be having it at the time of surgery or too close afterwords. Just didn't want to mess with it.

     Well, someone just sent me this blog entry on "The Moon, Breast Cancer Surgery, and Menstrual Cycles". Interesting thoughts. Basically, it's saying that timing your surgery with your cycle may have a positive effect on cure rate.

     It says that the reasons are the high levels of estrogen in the first half of the cycle verses the second half. If this logic is true then the cure rate would affect estrogen positive cancers I would think. - Cancers are like people or jelly beans. There's all kinds and flavors. Breast cancers can be intimately related to hormones. That's why they say ER+, for example. This means that the tumor receptors are estrogen positive, i.e. the cancer "feeds" off of estrogen. In other words, a cancer that's not estrogen sensitive may not be affected one way or the other.

     According to the above post, the survival difference doesn't seem huge. Although, when facing cancer treatment, all odds in your favor are most welcome.

  • 75% survival five years later for those who had surgery in the last half of their cycle
  • 63% survival five years later for those having surgery in the first half of the cycle

Here's a little history...

     Apparently, this link between menstrual cycle and breast cancer surgery comes from an article by Dr. Hrushesky in The Journal of Women's Health. Here's a summary of that article.

     This article from Oncology, 1997, describes the original and follow-up research, the need for more studies, as well as the controversy surrounding this information. (WARNING: It reads like the research article that it is, but it's worth it to wade through.)

     The big problem with the original study and ones sited in this article is that they all look at results and patient information after the fact. They aren't specialized studies measuring one outcome or objective.

     These are the highlights:

  • There seem to be results on both sides, both for and against the original suggestion that menstrual cycle affects recurrence rate.
  • It sounds like Dr. Hrushesky was saying he saw a pattern and thought there needed to be some controlled studies. The studies here, at least some, are a matter of people going back and reviewing their data after the fact. Then you get people guessing the date of their last period.
  • The correlation between survival rate and menstrual period seem to be most noticeable in those with affected lymph nodes.
  • There hasn't been a study singling out menstruation and recurrence as it relates to the type of treatment (lumpectomy, radiation, mastectomy)
  • There was suggestion that if the effect of the hormones and surgery is true, then prescribing an estrogen or progesterone suppressor might be warranted pre-surgery
  • One study of 122 patients showed that cell proliferation rates change throughout the cycle. The thinking here is that if cell proliferation is at it's lowest during the luteal phase...after ovulation and before menstruation...then there may be a chance that cancer cells wouldn't proliferate as much during this time, either. This would make it more ideal for surgery. 
  • Controlled studies need to be done that can measure the effect of menstruation and hormones on surgery...and make sure it's not one of the other treatments that is affecting outcome.

     Finally, here's a short article from 2001 that says menstruation has nothing to do with breast surgery  from the American Cancer Society.

     Like I've said, I believe in advocating for yourself. Once all the information is taken in, all that's left to do is digest it and then listen to what you want to do, what you feel is best. It's your body, your health. If this feels right to you, great. If not, then it's not. After all, I've already made my decision, had my surgery. I did find this worth a read, though. Raises interesting questions, even if it doesn't answer any.

     I'm not being a downer, but the fact is that this would affect younger women, and there simply isn't a great amount of research being done on young women with breast cancer. That's why it's that much more important to take the bull by the horns if you're young and facing breast cancer.

 

August 21, 2007

Treatment Decision Tool

A friend of mine is in the middle of making a decision about treatment options. I feel for her. Those of Question_mark you going through this, or who have already been through it, know that it's a hard spot to be in.

I think this is especially true when you're younger and have a longer time in which it can come back. You have to weigh decisions about hormones and what they'll do to your reproductive abilities. You have to think about your peace of mind and long-term health, and you have to get quiet and try to listen to yourself at a time when your head is spinning and when everyone seems to want to offer you advice.

What to do?

I'm a big believer in advocating for yourself. I know that not everyone has the time or luxury of researching as much as I did. (Research affords me some comforting illusions about control. It's part of how I cope.)

If you're not that into research but still would like something to help you sort through treatment options...without offering opinions, then try this out. It's a Treatment Decision Tool from the American Cancer Society.

I found it today and went through it. It seemed pretty thorough, but allows that you may not know or have all the requested information, like type of cancer, size of tumor, ER/PR/HER2. (Speaking of...if you don't have this information, you might want to start requesting copies of all your pathology reports, etc. Just a good thing to have.)

I had already done a lot of research, as I said, and don't know if this would have helped me make a decision. I had already found this information elsewhere. This puts it succinctly into one place. It's a tool I wish I'd had in the beginning.

Hope it helps.

August 20, 2007

Razor Run-in

Don't try this at home...or at least wait 'til you're healed.

I'm not sure exactly what I did wrong, It probably had something to do with attempting to shave with arm muscles that have been on hiatus due to a mastectomy... you can see the results of my "Rounds with the Razor" below.

(Keep in mind that these pictures don't do justice to my apparently impaired shaving abilities. I didn't, in fact, know that these abilities were impaired until I saw the results that you see below...wish you could have seen the immediate results...but I must confess that taking a picture of my bleeding leg wasn't the first thing that came to mind.) Click on the pics to get a better look.

This is what happened...

Shaving_incident_2_3 As if I hadn't been sliced and diced enough as of late, I decided I was going to shave my own legs. It's  not such a big deal, I thought.

I was in the bathroom, using my handy dandy wipes to clean my face. I thought, "Hey, I bet it'd be easy to shave my legs if I just put one in the sink. That way, I can lean over and won't have to stretch my arms or work them too much."

Mind you, it's not so much that I can't use my arms at all. I actually have reasonably good range considering the nature of the recent surgery. It's more that I've learned my lesson about the pain that can result if I use my arms too much. (I tried to clean out the fridge one week after the mastectomy...not a good idea. Had to call to get more vicaden.) Lesson learned.

Anyway, with my leg in the sink, I figured I wouldn't have to reach, and I was right, I didn't have to reach. Arms (and chest muscles) were safe. Unfortunately, my legs weren't.

I finished shaving my legs and yelped when I looked down and saw all the dots of blood. (This picture doesn't do it justice. My first instinct was to wipe it off, which I did.)

And, no, it didn't sting at all while I was doing the actual damage. I hadn't felt a thing.

And, no, I was no longer taking any kind of narcotic medication!

And, yes, it was a new(er) blade. It had only been used once or twice...maybe that's why I didn't feel it initially... after all, a sharp blade makes a clean cut.

Anyway, I'm glad my surgeon's got better hands than I have! It rather looks like something's been nibbling on my shins.

While the other leg escaped less harmed, it didn't get away scott free...althought it didn't require as much Scott tissue to clean it up...which I had already done when I took the picture below.

I promptly went back to letting hubby shave my legs.

RESULTS Round One: Double_leg_shot_shaving_incident_3   

Razor: (about) 50

Sandra: 0